Allah yur7ma bwasi3 ra7mita w yaghferla w yadkhela eljanna ameen.
I have lost special people in my life, but I have never really lost a loved one who was so close to me, so I can not exactly say that I know how you feel... it must be really painful and you seem like a very strong person. I don't think it is a good idea to indulge in pain by listening to sad songs with lyrics that would stick in our heads. What happens is that we keep replaying them in our mind after listening to them. That's how our subconscious mind works. And that certainly doesn't help with the situation. I would suggest something a little more upbeat and positive. Music really does have an effect on us. Remember that to Allah we belong and to him we shall return. I like to think that, just like other things, elroo7 amanah. ya3nee it is only here for sometime w 9a7ibha yigdar yakhith.ha fe ay wagt yabee. I also like to think that when we pass over, it is not the end. Mujarad intiqal to another world. As if the soul doesn't die, but is simply in transition. I know it's hard. Time is a great healer. May Allah be with you always.
Thank u sara7a waayed ta2athart eb ur comment ,, Im always positive al7amdelaa ,, bas tawony asma3 hal eghnya ma kent a3arefha o 7aseet enha et3aber 3an 7aly now ,, o tethakart my dad allah yer7mah sej i miss him ma3a enna sar la 11 years mn towafa o Thanks again :)
Allah yur7ma bwasi3 ra7mita w yaghferla w yadkhela eljanna ameen.
ReplyDeleteI have lost special people in my life, but I have never really lost a loved one who was so close to me, so I can not exactly say that I know how you feel... it must be really painful and you seem like a very strong person.
I don't think it is a good idea to indulge in pain by listening to sad songs with lyrics that would stick in our heads. What happens is that we keep replaying them in our mind after listening to them. That's how our subconscious mind works. And that certainly doesn't help with the situation. I would suggest something a little more upbeat and positive. Music really does have an effect on us.
Remember that to Allah we belong and to him we shall return. I like to think that, just like other things, elroo7 amanah. ya3nee it is only here for sometime w 9a7ibha yigdar yakhith.ha fe ay wagt yabee.
I also like to think that when we pass over, it is not the end. Mujarad intiqal to another world. As if the soul doesn't die, but is simply in transition.
I know it's hard. Time is a great healer. May Allah be with you always.
Thank u sara7a waayed ta2athart eb ur comment ,, Im always positive al7amdelaa ,, bas tawony asma3 hal eghnya ma kent a3arefha o 7aseet enha et3aber 3an 7aly now ,, o tethakart my dad allah yer7mah sej i miss him ma3a enna sar la 11 years mn towafa o Thanks again :)
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